Elsa Maxwell

Elsa Maxwell (1883–1963) was a famed American author, gossip columnist, and socialite, renowned for her extravagant parties and sharp wit. Born in Keokuk, Iowa, she rose from humble beginnings to become one of the most influential hostesses of the 20th century, known for orchestrating legendary social events in New York, Paris, and Hollywood. Her flair for publicity and her deep connections with celebrities, royalty, and politicians made her a fixture in elite society, as well as a trusted confidante and commentator.

As an author, Maxwell wrote several books, including her memoir Elsa Maxwell’s Own Story and How to Do It, or The Lively Art of Entertaining. Her writing combined humor, social observation, and practical advice on charm, etiquette, and navigating high society. Beyond books, she also penned a popular syndicated gossip column, where she shared inside scoops and opinions on the cultural elite. Through her writing, Maxwell offered readers a glimpse into the glamorous world of high society with both admiration and satire.

Elsa Maxwell was well known for her clever and biting quotes, such as:

“Laugh at yourself before anyone else can.”

“Bore: one who has the power of speech but not the capacity for conversation.”

“The secret of successful entertaining is to make guests feel at home—even when you wish they were.”
These quotes reflect Maxwell’s wit, wisdom, and keen understanding of human nature and social dynamics, securing her legacy not just as a party planner but as a cultural commentator and author of charm and candor.